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When will the majority of people think about others who suffer (notice the word suffer) from depression & addiction with compasion and understanding. I put depression and addiction in the same sentence, because facts show they're 97% to go hand & hand. If they have the time to look down their nose at the suffering. Then they have time to educate their self instead of being so ignorate forcing them to use words of hurt & discouragements (mostly in their gossip circles); all in the excuse of "tough love". If you want a person to hurt worse and self destruct faster, then keep using the failed tactic called, "tough love."

Depression just doesn't happen; nor does addiction. There's something in their past that extremely traumatized them to a point where they can't stop reliving it on a daily; for some, they've been reliving it or a combination of events most all their life. Then here comes along something that gives them peace & takes the pain away.(so they think) if only for a few minutes; some days, but it always returns. No, it doesn't have to be drugs or alcohol. It could be eating, shopping, sex and so on. See, the brain puts out chemicals; 2 chemicals are do-pa-min & serotonin. These are your "pleasure chemicals." Now you know what the doctor means when they say, "you have a chemical imbalance causing your depression." Anyway, lets get back on track.
Depression 90% of the time started in your developmental time of your life; that would be your teen years and sometimes even when you were still in the crib. Ever notice when you get in an argument & your infant is close and your baby starts crying? The baby is being exposed to extreme stress- so it cries out. In our teens yrs, we're being molded into the adults that'll be who we are & for many yrs to come; who are the teens looking for as this growth is happening? That's right, the parents. So if they grow up around "dysfunctions," guess what? You're right, dysfunctions; they'll carry YOUR loveless, hate, pissed off attitude, etc right into their 30's. Seems like they're depressed cause they knew in their own heart life can't be, shouldn't have been all they've experienced. And what they've lived throughout their young life will never leave them. Before they graduate (if they do) that smile they once had, that feeeling of being loved when mom & dad gave them that goodnight kiss, is now just a mask they made for YOU. They hope you'll feel accomplished in raising them in a good home filled with love. They stepped into this world with a large window that was barely open; sadly enough, the lesson to open it was taught. It's just the teen couldn't hear over the cussing, the slaps, hate filled words and the "shut ups." The teen enters the world with a fake smile looking for that feeeling of love he/she knew for a short time. The teen knows its here some where, it's just finding it. A friend came to see how their new life was going; to the friends surprise his friend had no direction, confused, angry and very depressed. The friend reached in his pocket, pulled out a bag. He explained what to do. The teen did as told; as a dust he never seen before ran throughout his body all he could feel was something he hadn't felt since a kid- "a warm loving hug. Much like the ones he got as a kid from his moms." vintage inspired gowns for mother of the bride

Everyone has their own story.
Remember this: There's no such thing is a happy

~xXFree WolfXx~